Why is it that people are so full of fear? There is so much hesitation in our actions, and that is assuming that we even follow through at all. Why are we so afraid of putting ourselves out there? We fear rejection or looking dumb. I do not know if it is because of how social our society has become where anything can be posted anywhere at anytime, or if appearance and status has become so important to everyone that no one is willing to compromise themselves.
We got this one life to live, so why not make it great. Do something different and put yourself out there. Your missing out on so much opportunity and chances for great things to happen. The risk matches the reward. If you always settle for the little things and dont ever go big, then your never going to get that big reward.
The best example I can think of is when it comes to women. Your standing in line one day at a coffee shop, and bam, you see the most beautiful girl in the entire world. What are you going to do? Just walk away without saying a single word and just wondering what that small conversation could have sparked into? or that girl you sit by in class and have a good connection with. Just let the semester go by without ever actually making a move or pursuing her? why not take that shot? what is it that we fear? rejection? let down? looking dumb? if the girl turns you down or it doesnt work, then you know that you are one girl closer to finding the right one. Take a risk and put yourself out there. If we were not so concerned with the outcomes of things and failing, I wonder what people would be like. probably way too confident. but at least people would not be living in fear.
If you knew that you would succeed at everything you attempted, how many more things would you try? HELLA things. thats how many.
Another thing that effs things up is that kindness is so rare and only used when there is something wanted back in return, that women take kindness as flirting and it makes the simplest of situations hella weird sometimes. Ill touch on that on another post tho. PEACE
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